How to Survive Divorce.....even when it is almost 5 years in!
Look, I have been divorced a long time now; and it has been no easy road.....why I ever decided to marry that individual will forever be a conundrum to me. I knew from the get go that we were a magnanimous mismatch, a total doleful disaster; yet I accepted the ring, I made the vows, and all with a niggling in my mind that I was making a massive mistake. I had given birth to my son, whom naturally, we both absolutely adored. It was with his birth however, that the real cracks in our rushed relationship started to present themselves....the pregnancy was tough, he was always at work or in the gym or at rugby. I was so far down his list of priorities I may as well not have existed for him. I started to carve my own life, I didn't fight him on the fact that I never saw him. I am not being high and mighty here, I just didn't care to have him around, he caused me anxiety and put me at ill ease. I should have listened to those warnings. Then my gorgeous son came into the wo...